WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:05.060 align:middle line:84% I'll read a little bit from the opening chapter of the book, 00:00:05.060 --> 00:00:10.600 align:middle line:84% which is called "A Poem is a Tool for Careful Listening." 00:00:10.600 --> 00:00:12.920 align:middle line:84% Throughout my reading life, poems 00:00:12.920 --> 00:00:17.440 align:middle line:84% have greeted me with what feels like urgent compassion. 00:00:17.440 --> 00:00:20.880 align:middle line:84% When I'm lost or afraid, the speakers of poems 00:00:20.880 --> 00:00:25.360 align:middle line:84% assure me that my feelings are nothing to hide from or deny. 00:00:25.360 --> 00:00:29.360 align:middle line:84% Indeed, that vulnerability, uncertainty, and even 00:00:29.360 --> 00:00:32.759 align:middle line:84% desperation are not only signs of life, 00:00:32.759 --> 00:00:37.240 align:middle line:84% but tools for moving forward toward courage, hope, 00:00:37.240 --> 00:00:39.200 align:middle line:90% and purpose. 00:00:39.200 --> 00:00:42.400 align:middle line:84% When I'm confident in my convictions, 00:00:42.400 --> 00:00:45.360 align:middle line:84% poems alert me to complexities I've 00:00:45.360 --> 00:00:50.320 align:middle line:84% failed or been unwilling to regard. 00:00:50.320 --> 00:00:53.640 align:middle line:84% And like the best of friends, somehow the poems 00:00:53.640 --> 00:00:59.080 align:middle line:84% I've loved for years managed to keep evolving, meeting me 00:00:59.080 --> 00:01:00.360 align:middle line:90% where I am. 00:01:00.360 --> 00:01:03.230 align:middle line:90% And then how do they do it? 00:01:03.230 --> 00:01:06.150 align:middle line:84% leading me still further along toward what 00:01:06.150 --> 00:01:10.990 align:middle line:84% will startle, console, and even change me. 00:01:10.990 --> 00:01:13.350 align:middle line:90% I shouldn't be surprised. 00:01:13.350 --> 00:01:17.350 align:middle line:84% Our very selves from day-to-day are the result 00:01:17.350 --> 00:01:23.550 align:middle line:84% of where we've been, what we've seen, how we've hurt and healed, 00:01:23.550 --> 00:01:28.670 align:middle line:84% and what we are on the threshold even now of discovering. 00:01:28.670 --> 00:01:31.670 align:middle line:90% We never cease in our becoming. 00:01:31.670 --> 00:01:34.890 align:middle line:84% Neither does this art form, this confidante, 00:01:34.890 --> 00:01:39.110 align:middle line:84% this tool designed to remind us how it feels 00:01:39.110 --> 00:01:45.510 align:middle line:84% and why it matters to love, to remember, to ache, to fear, 00:01:45.510 --> 00:01:49.230 align:middle line:84% to be astonished by what our minds can make 00:01:49.230 --> 00:01:51.736 align:middle line:84% and what our spirits can withstand. 00:01:51.736 --> 00:01:55.470 align:middle line:90% 00:01:55.470 --> 00:01:58.070 align:middle line:84% I wish I could say to everyone who 00:01:58.070 --> 00:02:01.710 align:middle line:84% lives with the fear of poetry, you don't always 00:02:01.710 --> 00:02:04.030 align:middle line:90% have to understand it. 00:02:04.030 --> 00:02:05.830 align:middle line:90% You can let it nudge you. 00:02:05.830 --> 00:02:08.830 align:middle line:90% Let it cause something to stir. 00:02:08.830 --> 00:02:12.510 align:middle line:84% The sounds of words gliding along next to one another. 00:02:12.510 --> 00:02:17.750 align:middle line:84% The glimpse of an image, a face, a body taking flight. 00:02:17.750 --> 00:02:21.270 align:middle line:84% Rain hammering down in the night. 00:02:21.270 --> 00:02:23.630 align:middle line:84% The difference between the droplets 00:02:23.630 --> 00:02:27.510 align:middle line:84% hitting the houses and those landing in trees. 00:02:27.510 --> 00:02:32.390 align:middle line:84% A blanket of sound covering everything it sees. 00:02:32.390 --> 00:02:38.670 align:middle line:84% What I mean is, I don't always understand the poems I admire. 00:02:38.670 --> 00:02:43.390 align:middle line:84% Sometimes poems operate by a logic that eludes me 00:02:43.390 --> 00:02:45.430 align:middle line:90% the way dreams often do. 00:02:45.430 --> 00:02:49.830 align:middle line:84% Sometimes like a conversation with a wonderful stranger, 00:02:49.830 --> 00:02:53.310 align:middle line:84% a poem speaks to me in words I know, 00:02:53.310 --> 00:02:58.030 align:middle line:84% while leading me down paths that are startling and unfamiliar. 00:02:58.030 --> 00:03:02.270 align:middle line:84% Some poems seem to carry me away from my usual thoughts, 00:03:02.270 --> 00:03:06.510 align:middle line:84% my usual self, which can feel like a gift. 00:03:06.510 --> 00:03:11.860 align:middle line:84% How often do we feel overwhelmed in the lives we know? 00:03:11.860 --> 00:03:16.340 align:middle line:84% How often does the world as we have come to recognize it, 00:03:16.340 --> 00:03:22.500 align:middle line:84% the world as we've been taught to see it fill us with fright? 00:03:22.500 --> 00:03:25.220 align:middle line:84% Far from something to fear, I'd say 00:03:25.220 --> 00:03:29.420 align:middle line:84% that poetry is an art form that allows us to redefine 00:03:29.420 --> 00:03:32.940 align:middle line:84% our relationship to fear by stepping 00:03:32.940 --> 00:03:36.980 align:middle line:84% in close to the facets of the world that we don't like 00:03:36.980 --> 00:03:39.140 align:middle line:90% or don't understand. 00:03:39.140 --> 00:03:42.140 align:middle line:84% Often enough, these are the same things. 00:03:42.140 --> 00:03:46.940 align:middle line:84% Often enough, it is the illusion of extraordinary distance, 00:03:46.940 --> 00:03:49.420 align:middle line:84% blurring out details and shrouding 00:03:49.420 --> 00:03:54.140 align:middle line:84% motives in shadow that makes us fearsome to one another. 00:03:54.140 --> 00:03:57.980 align:middle line:84% Not always, of course, but often enough. 00:03:57.980 --> 00:04:02.900 align:middle line:84% It's not always possible to test out such a theory in life, 00:04:02.900 --> 00:04:06.020 align:middle line:84% but poems are built to bridge distances 00:04:06.020 --> 00:04:10.260 align:middle line:84% of all kinds between people and events separated 00:04:10.260 --> 00:04:13.860 align:middle line:84% from one another by time, geography, temperament, 00:04:13.860 --> 00:04:15.460 align:middle line:90% and belief. 00:04:15.460 --> 00:04:18.660 align:middle line:84% A poem can even traverse the distance between the living 00:04:18.660 --> 00:04:20.700 align:middle line:90% and the dead. 00:04:20.700 --> 00:04:24.460 align:middle line:84% If you're reading these pages because you love poetry, 00:04:24.460 --> 00:04:26.660 align:middle line:84% then I would like to convince you 00:04:26.660 --> 00:04:29.340 align:middle line:84% that poems, if you allow them to, 00:04:29.340 --> 00:04:35.140 align:middle line:84% can help you to love every other thing in the world around you. 00:04:35.140 --> 00:04:36.900 align:middle line:90% Imagine that. 00:04:36.900 --> 00:04:39.180 align:middle line:84% Imagine what it would mean to allow 00:04:39.180 --> 00:04:43.100 align:middle line:84% a poem, which can empower you beyond the apprehension 00:04:43.100 --> 00:04:47.900 align:middle line:84% of threat, to move you closer and closer to that which you 00:04:47.900 --> 00:04:52.740 align:middle line:84% do not love, allowing you to observe, imagine, and feel 00:04:52.740 --> 00:04:56.660 align:middle line:84% your way past indifference or suspicion 00:04:56.660 --> 00:04:58.980 align:middle line:90% and toward recognition. 00:04:58.980 --> 00:05:01.620 align:middle line:84% Let's leave it there for the time being, 00:05:01.620 --> 00:05:06.940 align:middle line:84% because recognition is the threshold for a great deal more. 00:05:06.940 --> 00:05:10.060 align:middle line:84% And if you've read this far because poetry is something 00:05:10.060 --> 00:05:14.930 align:middle line:84% that you do not as of yet love, something that has made you feel 00:05:14.930 --> 00:05:18.330 align:middle line:84% confused or self-conscious or inadequate, 00:05:18.330 --> 00:05:21.970 align:middle line:84% then my wish is to convince you that the opposite of love 00:05:21.970 --> 00:05:25.810 align:middle line:84% is not hatred or rancor, but fear. 00:05:25.810 --> 00:05:30.730 align:middle line:84% And to help you clear that impediment from this and perhaps 00:05:30.730 --> 00:05:34.010 align:middle line:84% other contexts in your life, I want 00:05:34.010 --> 00:05:40.170 align:middle line:84% to do this not for but with you because you and I are not alone. 00:05:40.170 --> 00:05:43.970 align:middle line:84% We dwell together in a world riddled with reasons 00:05:43.970 --> 00:05:47.890 align:middle line:84% for despair, a world brimming, too, 00:05:47.890 --> 00:05:51.370 align:middle line:84% with forms of beauty that fill us with awe, 00:05:51.370 --> 00:05:56.290 align:middle line:84% joy, wonder, fear on the one hand, 00:05:56.290 --> 00:05:58.840 align:middle line:84% and something like love on the other. 00:05:58.840 --> 00:06:02.252 align:middle line:90% 00:06:02.252 --> 00:06:03.210 align:middle line:90% I'm going to read you-- 00:06:03.210 --> 00:06:04.010 align:middle line:90% oh, thanks. 00:06:04.010 --> 00:06:04.910 align:middle line:90% You're so sweet. 00:06:04.910 --> 00:06:06.390 align:middle line:90% But you don't have to. 00:06:06.390 --> 00:06:09.250 align:middle line:84% I'm going to wear you out, going back and forth. 00:06:09.250 --> 00:06:12.170 align:middle line:84% I'm just going to assume that there's constant applause going 00:06:12.170 --> 00:06:14.300 align:middle line:90% on somewhere.