WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:05.886 align:middle line:84% I'm going to read you some new poems. 00:00:05.886 --> 00:00:12.690 align:middle line:84% All of you know, except if there's a freshman here. 00:00:12.690 --> 00:00:14.530 align:middle line:90% But here's for him-- 00:00:14.530 --> 00:00:15.270 align:middle line:90% him. 00:00:15.270 --> 00:00:16.740 align:middle line:90% It wouldn't be a her. 00:00:16.740 --> 00:00:21.690 align:middle line:84% For him, I would remind you that Icarus 00:00:21.690 --> 00:00:26.130 align:middle line:84% was the son who with his father were fleeing from the island 00:00:26.130 --> 00:00:28.290 align:middle line:84% because the barbarians had conquered it. 00:00:28.290 --> 00:00:30.240 align:middle line:84% And they were going to be killed. 00:00:30.240 --> 00:00:32.970 align:middle line:84% And the father, who was a magician, 00:00:32.970 --> 00:00:38.460 align:middle line:84% made them wings of wax and feathers, and they flew away. 00:00:38.460 --> 00:00:41.610 align:middle line:84% Except Icarus was young and was enjoying himself. 00:00:41.610 --> 00:00:45.090 align:middle line:84% And most critics say, he was vain. 00:00:45.090 --> 00:00:49.080 align:middle line:84% So he flew higher and higher, got close to the sun. 00:00:49.080 --> 00:00:50.850 align:middle line:90% The sun melted of-- 00:00:50.850 --> 00:00:53.730 align:middle line:84% the wax, the wet feathers flew off, 00:00:53.730 --> 00:00:55.110 align:middle line:90% and he fell into the ground. 00:00:55.110 --> 00:00:59.130 align:middle line:84% And ever since, it's been tilled-- it's been the-- 00:00:59.130 --> 00:01:06.900 align:middle line:84% example, warning you against being extravagant, 00:01:06.900 --> 00:01:09.900 align:middle line:90% teaching you security. 00:01:09.900 --> 00:01:13.350 align:middle line:90% 00:01:13.350 --> 00:01:16.380 align:middle line:84% It's called "Failing and Flying." 00:01:16.380 --> 00:01:19.840 align:middle line:90% 00:01:19.840 --> 00:01:23.470 align:middle line:84% "Everyone forgets that Icarus also 00:01:23.470 --> 00:01:29.650 align:middle line:84% flew, like when love comes to an end or the marriage fails 00:01:29.650 --> 00:01:33.370 align:middle line:84% and people say, they knew it was a mistake, that everybody 00:01:33.370 --> 00:01:35.380 align:middle line:84% said it would never work, that she was 00:01:35.380 --> 00:01:36.880 align:middle line:90% old enough not to know that. 00:01:36.880 --> 00:01:40.180 align:middle line:84% She was old enough to know better. 00:01:40.180 --> 00:01:44.785 align:middle line:84% But anything really worth doing is worth doing badly. 00:01:44.785 --> 00:01:47.920 align:middle line:90% 00:01:47.920 --> 00:01:52.060 align:middle line:84% Being there with Linda, by the summer ocean, 00:01:52.060 --> 00:01:55.510 align:middle line:84% on our deserted side of the island, 00:01:55.510 --> 00:01:59.440 align:middle line:84% where love was fading out of her, 00:01:59.440 --> 00:02:03.670 align:middle line:84% the stars burning so extravagantly those nights 00:02:03.670 --> 00:02:09.160 align:middle line:84% that anyone could tell you they would never last. 00:02:09.160 --> 00:02:16.390 align:middle line:84% Every morning, she was like a visitation, asleep in my bed. 00:02:16.390 --> 00:02:23.890 align:middle line:84% The gentleness in her, like deer standing in the dawn mist. 00:02:23.890 --> 00:02:27.400 align:middle line:84% I watched her every afternoon coming back 00:02:27.400 --> 00:02:31.720 align:middle line:84% through the hot stony field after swimming, 00:02:31.720 --> 00:02:36.040 align:middle line:84% the sea light behind her and the giant sky 00:02:36.040 --> 00:02:40.640 align:middle line:90% on the other side of that. 00:02:40.640 --> 00:02:45.170 align:middle line:84% I listened to her while we ate lunch. 00:02:45.170 --> 00:02:50.180 align:middle line:84% How can they say that that marriage failed? 00:02:50.180 --> 00:02:55.040 align:middle line:84% It's like the people who came back from Provence when 00:02:55.040 --> 00:02:59.960 align:middle line:84% it was still the true Provence it had been, and said, 00:02:59.960 --> 00:03:03.215 align:middle line:84% it was pretty, but the food was greasy. 00:03:03.215 --> 00:03:06.680 align:middle line:90% 00:03:06.680 --> 00:03:12.230 align:middle line:84% I believe Icarus was not failing as he fell, but just coming 00:03:12.230 --> 00:03:15.580 align:middle line:90% to the end of his triumph." 00:03:15.580 --> 00:03:17.000 align:middle line:90%