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"Here's what it's like if it's
hard to put yourself first.

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You genuinely feel happiness
when someone else's needs

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are fulfilled.

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At least, this is what
you know as happiness,

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the relief of not being
seen, of having someone

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preoccupied with themselves.

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Well, that's not exactly right.

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There is relief in seeing
another person being happy.

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Being happy makes it possible
for that other person

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to love someone.

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In my case, I want another
person to be able to love me."

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