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"What I also mean to say is
that I recognize the focus.

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The impulse to know someone
else before you reveal yourself.

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The impulse to know
someone else because you

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have never been asked
to reveal yourself.

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The impulse to know someone
else because otherwise you

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do not know yourself.

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The impulse to know someone else
because you are self conscious

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of your whole self, the one
that fills up too many rooms, so

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much space.

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The impulse to hide how
much space you need.

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The impulse to hide
what you need."

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