WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:00.510 align:middle line:90% 00:00:00.510 --> 00:00:05.520 align:middle line:84% Another-- well, this is not exactly 00:00:05.520 --> 00:00:08.610 align:middle line:84% a breakup poem, next to it on the page, 00:00:08.610 --> 00:00:11.310 align:middle line:90% this is an unrequited love poem. 00:00:11.310 --> 00:00:16.050 align:middle line:84% And the lover is sitting in a drive-in movie show, sort 00:00:16.050 --> 00:00:17.790 align:middle line:90% of half watching the movie. 00:00:17.790 --> 00:00:22.320 align:middle line:84% Actually he's watching the movie through his straw. 00:00:22.320 --> 00:00:28.890 align:middle line:84% And he's got the iced Coke in his lap, 00:00:28.890 --> 00:00:34.950 align:middle line:84% trying to freeze his romantic area down there, so 00:00:34.950 --> 00:00:42.210 align:middle line:90% that he is not-- 00:00:42.210 --> 00:00:44.880 align:middle line:84% and he's thinking about his lost love, 00:00:44.880 --> 00:00:51.310 align:middle line:84% and he's thinking about how she got out of it by saying, 00:00:51.310 --> 00:00:52.920 align:middle line:84% well, we really don't go together, 00:00:52.920 --> 00:00:56.860 align:middle line:84% our chemistry is not right, the DNA or whatever. 00:00:56.860 --> 00:01:00.660 align:middle line:84% And so he tries to console himself with this concept, 00:01:00.660 --> 00:01:05.970 align:middle line:84% you know, this sociobiological concept that it's not-- 00:01:05.970 --> 00:01:08.820 align:middle line:84% we really have no control over our needs, 00:01:08.820 --> 00:01:13.920 align:middle line:84% or our physical urges, and it's the DNA in us, 00:01:13.920 --> 00:01:16.950 align:middle line:84% or it's the genetic makeup in us that 00:01:16.950 --> 00:01:20.250 align:middle line:90% causes us to choose partners. 00:01:20.250 --> 00:01:22.260 align:middle line:84% And so he's trying to console himself with that. 00:01:22.260 --> 00:01:26.460 align:middle line:84% This poem is called "The Consolations of Sociobiology." 00:01:26.460 --> 00:01:29.100 align:middle line:90% Those scars rooted me. 00:01:29.100 --> 00:01:33.270 align:middle line:84% Stigmata stalagmite I sat at a drive-in 00:01:33.270 --> 00:01:38.610 align:middle line:84% and watched the stars through a straw while the Coke in my lap 00:01:38.610 --> 00:01:43.560 align:middle line:90% went waterier and waterier. 00:01:43.560 --> 00:01:50.970 align:middle line:84% For days on end or nights no end I crawled on all fours 00:01:50.970 --> 00:01:55.590 align:middle line:84% or in my case no fours to worship you-- 00:01:55.590 --> 00:01:59.000 align:middle line:90% Amoeba Behemoth. 00:01:59.000 --> 00:02:06.810 align:middle line:84% --Then then you explained your DNA calls for meaner genes 00:02:06.810 --> 00:02:10.110 align:middle line:84% than mine and since you are merely so 00:02:10.110 --> 00:02:15.780 align:middle line:84% to speak its external expression etcet ergo among your lovers 00:02:15.780 --> 00:02:18.606 align:middle line:90% I'll never be. 00:02:18.606 --> 00:02:24.450 align:middle line:84% Ah, that movie was so far away the stars melting 00:02:24.450 --> 00:02:27.420 align:middle line:90% made my thighs icy. 00:02:27.420 --> 00:02:29.460 align:middle line:90% I see--" It's 00:02:29.460 --> 00:02:31.080 align:middle line:90% [LAUGHTER] 00:02:31.080 --> 00:02:37.740 align:middle line:84% I see-- It's not you, it's not you who is not requiting me, 00:02:37.740 --> 00:02:39.810 align:middle line:84% it's not you who is not requiting my love. 00:02:39.810 --> 00:02:42.630 align:middle line:84% --"it's not you who is not requiting me, 00:02:42.630 --> 00:02:47.685 align:middle line:84% it's something in you over which you have no say says no to me." 00:02:47.685 --> 00:02:57.335 align:middle line:90% 00:02:57.335 --> 00:02:58.710 align:middle line:84% Well you have to console yourself 00:02:58.710 --> 00:03:07.520 align:middle line:84% some way, when those unrequited romances occur.