WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:01.050 align:middle line:90% 00:00:01.050 --> 00:00:04.770 align:middle line:90% "Visiting The Graves" 00:00:04.770 --> 00:00:07.590 align:middle line:84% All day we travel from bed to bed, 00:00:07.590 --> 00:00:10.410 align:middle line:84% our children clutching homemade bouquets 00:00:10.410 --> 00:00:13.380 align:middle line:84% of tulips and jonquils, hyacinth, 00:00:13.380 --> 00:00:16.680 align:middle line:84% handfuls of yellow salad from the fields. 00:00:16.680 --> 00:00:20.760 align:middle line:84% In Pennsylvania County our dead face east, 00:00:20.760 --> 00:00:23.490 align:middle line:84% my great grandfather and his sons 00:00:23.490 --> 00:00:27.150 align:middle line:84% facing what is now a stranger's farm. 00:00:27.150 --> 00:00:30.960 align:middle line:84% One great uncle chose a separate hill, an absence 00:00:30.960 --> 00:00:33.060 align:middle line:90% in the only photograph. 00:00:33.060 --> 00:00:36.390 align:middle line:84% Under the big oak we fumble for his name 00:00:36.390 --> 00:00:40.170 align:middle line:84% and the names of sisters scattered like coins. 00:00:40.170 --> 00:00:43.080 align:middle line:84% But here is my father, near the stone 00:00:43.080 --> 00:00:46.270 align:middle line:84% we watched him weep beside for 20 years. 00:00:46.270 --> 00:00:51.120 align:middle line:84% And my mother beside him, the greenest slab of grass. 00:00:51.120 --> 00:00:54.360 align:middle line:84% By horse it was hours to Franklin County, 00:00:54.360 --> 00:00:57.630 align:middle line:84% to Liberty Christian Church where her mother lies. 00:00:57.630 --> 00:01:00.240 align:middle line:84% The children squabble in the car, 00:01:00.240 --> 00:01:04.650 align:middle line:84% roll on the velvet slope of the churchyard, pout or laugh 00:01:04.650 --> 00:01:08.700 align:middle line:84% as we point out the gap in the mountain where her mother's 00:01:08.700 --> 00:01:10.320 align:middle line:90% grave is underwater. 00:01:10.320 --> 00:01:12.810 align:middle line:84% The lake laughing, the house, the house 00:01:12.810 --> 00:01:15.150 align:middle line:90% still standing like a tooth. 00:01:15.150 --> 00:01:18.750 align:middle line:84% We tell them how we picked huckleberries from the yard, 00:01:18.750 --> 00:01:22.470 align:middle line:84% tell them what a huckleberry is, but the oldest 00:01:22.470 --> 00:01:25.500 align:middle line:84% can't keep straight who's still alive. 00:01:25.500 --> 00:01:29.550 align:middle line:84% The smallest wants her flowers back, who can blame them? 00:01:29.550 --> 00:01:32.460 align:middle line:84% This far from home, tired of trying 00:01:32.460 --> 00:01:34.830 align:middle line:90% to climb a tree of bones, 00:01:34.830 --> 00:01:37.860 align:middle line:84% they fall asleep halfway down the road, 00:01:37.860 --> 00:01:40.080 align:middle line:90% and we fall silent too, 00:01:40.080 --> 00:01:43.680 align:middle line:84% who were taught to remember and return. 00:01:43.680 --> 00:01:46.680 align:middle line:84% Our sister is driving, I'm in the back. 00:01:46.680 --> 00:01:51.570 align:middle line:84% The sky before us, a broken field of cloud. 00:01:51.570 --> 00:01:54.620 align:middle line:90% [APPLAUSE] 00:01:54.620 --> 00:02:00.000 align:middle line:90%