WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.340 align:middle line:90% 00:00:02.340 --> 00:00:06.300 align:middle line:84% "Brown" has a little explanation that goes with it. 00:00:06.300 --> 00:00:08.710 align:middle line:84% Whenever you do ballroom dancing, 00:00:08.710 --> 00:00:11.620 align:middle line:84% you do competitions, or showcases in the place 00:00:11.620 --> 00:00:14.100 align:middle line:84% where you're dancing with a group of people 00:00:14.100 --> 00:00:17.700 align:middle line:84% in the audience, there is a woman who always shows up-- 00:00:17.700 --> 00:00:20.520 align:middle line:90% we call her "the dress lady." 00:00:20.520 --> 00:00:22.710 align:middle line:84% She's the one who brings all those wonderful ball 00:00:22.710 --> 00:00:26.665 align:middle line:84% gowns for sale, yards and yards and yards and yards of ball 00:00:26.665 --> 00:00:27.165 align:middle line:90% gown. 00:00:27.165 --> 00:00:29.810 align:middle line:90% 00:00:29.810 --> 00:00:32.150 align:middle line:90% "Brown." 00:00:32.150 --> 00:00:34.310 align:middle line:84% "Why you look good in every color! 00:00:34.310 --> 00:00:37.430 align:middle line:84% The dress lady gurgled, just before I stepped 00:00:37.430 --> 00:00:40.520 align:middle line:90% onto the parquet for a waltz. 00:00:40.520 --> 00:00:43.770 align:middle line:84% I demurred, we were in a country club, after all. 00:00:43.770 --> 00:00:46.460 align:middle line:84% And she, fresh from Fort Lauderdale-- 00:00:46.460 --> 00:00:48.350 align:middle line:90% do people actually live there-- 00:00:48.350 --> 00:00:51.620 align:middle line:84% with five duffle bags' worth of ball gowns, 00:00:51.620 --> 00:00:55.040 align:middle line:84% enough tulle and fringe and pearls to float a small 00:00:55.040 --> 00:00:59.060 align:middle line:84% cotillion, was only trying to earn a living. 00:00:59.060 --> 00:01:01.550 align:middle line:84% For once, I was not the only Black person 00:01:01.550 --> 00:01:04.819 align:middle line:84% in the room, two others, both male. 00:01:04.819 --> 00:01:08.060 align:middle line:84% I thought of Sambo, I thought a few other things 00:01:08.060 --> 00:01:11.420 align:middle line:90% too, unmentionable here. 00:01:11.420 --> 00:01:14.810 align:middle line:84% Don't get me wrong, I've always loved my skin, 00:01:14.810 --> 00:01:18.020 align:middle line:84% the way it glows against citron and fuchsia, 00:01:18.020 --> 00:01:20.030 align:middle line:90% the difficult hues. 00:01:20.030 --> 00:01:21.980 align:middle line:84% But the difference I cause whenever 00:01:21.980 --> 00:01:28.610 align:middle line:84% I walk into a polite space is why I prefer grand entrances, 00:01:28.610 --> 00:01:33.800 align:middle line:84% especially with a Waltz, that European, constipated swoon. 00:01:33.800 --> 00:01:36.500 align:middle line:90% [LAUGHTER] 00:01:36.500 --> 00:01:40.360 align:middle line:84% The dress, in question, was red." 00:01:40.360 --> 00:01:43.000 align:middle line:90%