WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:00.780 align:middle line:90% 00:00:00.780 --> 00:00:03.600 align:middle line:84% I read this earlier today, but I'd 00:00:03.600 --> 00:00:11.730 align:middle line:84% like to read it now just because I feel like, 00:00:11.730 --> 00:00:15.360 align:middle line:84% what I told the class earlier is, this is actually 00:00:15.360 --> 00:00:19.660 align:middle line:90% the heart of my response. 00:00:19.660 --> 00:00:22.740 align:middle line:84% So, it was a piece that I wrote as I 00:00:22.740 --> 00:00:26.670 align:middle line:90% was working on these poems. 00:00:26.670 --> 00:00:30.720 align:middle line:84% I did a lot of research on apologies 00:00:30.720 --> 00:00:32.680 align:middle line:90% made around the world. 00:00:32.680 --> 00:00:38.780 align:middle line:84% So, it was really something really educational. 00:00:38.780 --> 00:00:43.600 align:middle line:84% There have been many apologies, actually, here in the US, 00:00:43.600 --> 00:00:44.100 align:middle line:90% right? 00:00:44.100 --> 00:00:47.160 align:middle line:90% 00:00:47.160 --> 00:00:52.590 align:middle line:84% And as well as in Canada with the First Nations people, 00:00:52.590 --> 00:00:53.850 align:middle line:90% and so on. 00:00:53.850 --> 00:00:59.760 align:middle line:84% And I was really trying my best, through all of this reading, 00:00:59.760 --> 00:01:05.590 align:middle line:84% trying to understand what makes an apology effective. 00:01:05.590 --> 00:01:08.700 align:middle line:90% What makes it feel right. 00:01:08.700 --> 00:01:14.700 align:middle line:84% What makes it just sit, like you can feel it 00:01:14.700 --> 00:01:17.340 align:middle line:90% when somebody means it, right? 00:01:17.340 --> 00:01:21.040 align:middle line:84% And I was really trying to understand that. 00:01:21.040 --> 00:01:24.315 align:middle line:84% And so, I started thinking about apologies in my own life. 00:01:24.315 --> 00:01:27.310 align:middle line:90% 00:01:27.310 --> 00:01:33.150 align:middle line:84% And I came to this moment that I had between my father 00:01:33.150 --> 00:01:37.830 align:middle line:84% and that was really life altering, a life altering 00:01:37.830 --> 00:01:39.480 align:middle line:90% moment, I think. 00:01:39.480 --> 00:01:43.370 align:middle line:90% Well for me, definitely. 00:01:43.370 --> 00:01:45.000 align:middle line:90%