WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.479 align:middle line:90% [APPLAUSE] 00:00:03.479 --> 00:00:05.850 align:middle line:90% 00:00:05.850 --> 00:00:07.725 align:middle line:84% I feel like you've won a prize, come on down. 00:00:07.725 --> 00:00:10.530 align:middle line:90% 00:00:10.530 --> 00:00:11.940 align:middle line:90% What's your name? 00:00:11.940 --> 00:00:12.880 align:middle line:90% My human names? 00:00:12.880 --> 00:00:15.120 align:middle line:90% Yes. 00:00:15.120 --> 00:00:19.470 align:middle line:90% OK, this is Sophia. 00:00:19.470 --> 00:00:21.420 align:middle line:84% Tell us about the byproducts of grief. 00:00:21.420 --> 00:00:23.290 align:middle line:90% 00:00:23.290 --> 00:00:26.730 align:middle line:90% Sophia, I just told you already. 00:00:26.730 --> 00:00:28.290 align:middle line:90% How would you like to proceed? 00:00:28.290 --> 00:00:30.290 align:middle line:84% I was wondering if you were comfortable with it, 00:00:30.290 --> 00:00:32.299 align:middle line:84% could I kiss the tops of your feet? 00:00:32.299 --> 00:00:34.730 align:middle line:90% Oh my God, yes. 00:00:34.730 --> 00:00:37.010 align:middle line:84% That's the cutest thing I've ever heard. 00:00:37.010 --> 00:00:38.030 align:middle line:90% Yeah, of course. 00:00:38.030 --> 00:00:39.740 align:middle line:84% Do you want me to take my shoes off? 00:00:39.740 --> 00:00:40.560 align:middle line:90% If you're comfortable with it. 00:00:40.560 --> 00:00:41.060 align:middle line:90% Yeah. 00:00:41.060 --> 00:00:46.225 align:middle line:90% 00:00:46.225 --> 00:00:47.744 align:middle line:90% Sophia, you're the sweetness. 00:00:47.744 --> 00:00:51.380 align:middle line:90% 00:00:51.380 --> 00:00:53.360 align:middle line:84% She's letting me kiss the tops of her feet. 00:00:53.360 --> 00:00:57.064 align:middle line:90% 00:00:57.064 --> 00:00:59.570 align:middle line:90% Put your shoes under your chair. 00:00:59.570 --> 00:01:00.680 align:middle line:90% OK, I will. 00:01:00.680 --> 00:01:07.730 align:middle line:90% 00:01:07.730 --> 00:01:08.570 align:middle line:90% Should I just stand? 00:01:08.570 --> 00:01:10.350 align:middle line:90% You want me to sit? 00:01:10.350 --> 00:01:14.680 align:middle line:90% OK, I'm a little shy. 00:01:14.680 --> 00:01:15.180 align:middle line:90% OK. 00:01:15.180 --> 00:01:20.320 align:middle line:90% 00:01:20.320 --> 00:01:23.110 align:middle line:90% Oh, can I hug you? 00:01:23.110 --> 00:01:23.905 align:middle line:90% OK. 00:01:23.905 --> 00:01:25.030 align:middle line:90% Yeah, are you OK with that? 00:01:25.030 --> 00:01:26.914 align:middle line:90% Thank you so much. 00:01:26.914 --> 00:01:30.130 align:middle line:90% You're so sweet. 00:01:30.130 --> 00:01:30.880 align:middle line:90% You're so welcome. 00:01:30.880 --> 00:01:33.988 align:middle line:90% [APPLAUSE] 00:01:33.988 --> 00:01:39.200 align:middle line:90% 00:01:39.200 --> 00:01:42.800 align:middle line:90% OK I forget where we were at. 00:01:42.800 --> 00:01:45.290 align:middle line:84% Grief, we were talking about grief. 00:01:45.290 --> 00:01:51.730 align:middle line:84% My goodness, all right, byproducts of grief. 00:01:51.730 --> 00:01:55.490 align:middle line:90% 00:01:55.490 --> 00:01:57.790 align:middle line:84% This song-- excuse me, this poem, 00:01:57.790 --> 00:02:04.240 align:middle line:84% is a meditation on the energy that is generated by loss. 00:02:04.240 --> 00:02:07.120 align:middle line:90% It's called, "An Oiled Groove." 00:02:07.120 --> 00:02:10.990 align:middle line:84% "Here is an unfinished story of grief exposed, 00:02:10.990 --> 00:02:13.840 align:middle line:90% joy after the brink. 00:02:13.840 --> 00:02:18.250 align:middle line:84% Some basic elements, contempt, an immutable bond, 00:02:18.250 --> 00:02:22.000 align:middle line:84% the sort of disruption worth mentioning, 00:02:22.000 --> 00:02:24.370 align:middle line:90% irreversible action. 00:02:24.370 --> 00:02:27.910 align:middle line:84% A secret comes to surface, evitable. 00:02:27.910 --> 00:02:30.490 align:middle line:90% Visualize a likely context. 00:02:30.490 --> 00:02:33.280 align:middle line:84% Let's say there's a current closed. 00:02:33.280 --> 00:02:37.270 align:middle line:84% This electric circular route, and joy 00:02:37.270 --> 00:02:40.840 align:middle line:90% racing its oiled groove. 00:02:40.840 --> 00:02:45.850 align:middle line:84% Previous, the wires hammered, twisted, married. 00:02:45.850 --> 00:02:49.240 align:middle line:84% Copper can house a memory if someone else's hands 00:02:49.240 --> 00:02:51.220 align:middle line:90% are involved. 00:02:51.220 --> 00:02:56.530 align:middle line:84% A groove must wear thin or else dusts with disuse. 00:02:56.530 --> 00:03:01.810 align:middle line:84% Either way, a disintegration, because the thing cannot hold 00:03:01.810 --> 00:03:07.220 align:middle line:84% the thing itself, joy, because hands are not enough. 00:03:07.220 --> 00:03:09.210 align:middle line:90% We break down." 00:03:09.210 --> 00:03:10.090 align:middle line:90%