WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:01.410 align:middle line:90% 00:00:01.410 --> 00:00:02.870 align:middle line:84% This poem is called "Teacup This." 00:00:02.870 --> 00:00:05.470 align:middle line:90% 00:00:05.470 --> 00:00:08.050 align:middle line:84% To my young daughter, I sing the songs 00:00:08.050 --> 00:00:12.670 align:middle line:84% my mother sang to me, which is to say, to my young daughter, 00:00:12.670 --> 00:00:15.550 align:middle line:84% I sing an eclectic selection of breakup tunes of the '60s 00:00:15.550 --> 00:00:16.075 align:middle line:90% and '70s. 00:00:16.075 --> 00:00:18.472 align:middle line:90% [LAUGHTER] 00:00:18.472 --> 00:00:23.530 align:middle line:84% (SINGING) I should have known you'd bid me farewell. 00:00:23.530 --> 00:00:26.050 align:middle line:84% There's a lesson to be learned in this, 00:00:26.050 --> 00:00:28.760 align:middle line:90% and I learned it very well. 00:00:28.760 --> 00:00:33.070 align:middle line:84% Now I know you're not the only starfish in the sea. 00:00:33.070 --> 00:00:37.570 align:middle line:84% If I never hear your name again, it's all the same to me. 00:00:37.570 --> 00:00:39.580 align:middle line:84% That does not seem right to sing to a baby. 00:00:39.580 --> 00:00:41.800 align:middle line:90% [LAUGHTER] 00:00:41.800 --> 00:00:45.910 align:middle line:84% But here I am, and here she is, bed sprawled and blessed 00:00:45.910 --> 00:00:47.770 align:middle line:84% and so perhaps, like the starfish, 00:00:47.770 --> 00:00:50.950 align:middle line:84% yes, one creature of more than the world requires. 00:00:50.950 --> 00:00:55.540 align:middle line:84% As I am unceasingly reminded by pamphlet mandates, blanket 00:00:55.540 --> 00:01:01.130 align:middle line:84% labels, alerts to lay her always up, it's awful to be a person. 00:01:01.130 --> 00:01:02.830 align:middle line:84% That's why, from my lovers, I've always 00:01:02.830 --> 00:01:05.440 align:middle line:84% demanded to know what kind of a dog I would be, 00:01:05.440 --> 00:01:06.910 align:middle line:90% were I ever a dog. 00:01:06.910 --> 00:01:09.670 align:middle line:84% And don't say "teacup this," "toy that." 00:01:09.670 --> 00:01:12.160 align:middle line:84% Don't pick a dog that must travel all over stuffed 00:01:12.160 --> 00:01:15.220 align:middle line:90% in a bag like a filthy magazine. 00:01:15.220 --> 00:01:16.960 align:middle line:84% Don't take it lightly when I say, 00:01:16.960 --> 00:01:19.990 align:middle line:84% of all the men I've been with, there are only a few 00:01:19.990 --> 00:01:22.810 align:middle line:84% I never would allow to hold my child. 00:01:22.810 --> 00:01:25.620 align:middle line:90% I consider this a triumph. 00:01:25.620 --> 00:01:28.000 align:middle line:90%