WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:01.380 align:middle line:90% 00:00:01.380 --> 00:00:07.290 align:middle line:84% This, on the other hand, is a poem in defense of the family. 00:00:07.290 --> 00:00:11.490 align:middle line:84% I wrote it when a friend of mine accused me 00:00:11.490 --> 00:00:15.780 align:middle line:84% of hiding in the safety of a family. 00:00:15.780 --> 00:00:18.120 align:middle line:84% And I told her that I didn't see how 00:00:18.120 --> 00:00:19.680 align:middle line:84% she could have grown up in a family 00:00:19.680 --> 00:00:21.735 align:middle line:84% and considered it a safe place to hide. 00:00:21.735 --> 00:00:23.469 align:middle line:90% [LAUGHTER] 00:00:23.469 --> 00:00:26.310 align:middle line:90% 00:00:26.310 --> 00:00:27.900 align:middle line:90% Who Is It Accuses Us? 00:00:27.900 --> 00:00:30.510 align:middle line:90% 00:00:30.510 --> 00:00:34.020 align:middle line:90% Who is it accuses us of safety? 00:00:34.020 --> 00:00:39.390 align:middle line:84% As if the family were soldiers instead of hostages, 00:00:39.390 --> 00:00:44.250 align:middle line:84% as if the gardens were not mined with explosive peonies, as 00:00:44.250 --> 00:00:50.010 align:middle line:84% if the most common death were not by household accident. 00:00:50.010 --> 00:00:54.000 align:middle line:84% We have chosen the dangerous life. 00:00:54.000 --> 00:00:56.910 align:middle line:84% Consider the pale necks of the children 00:00:56.910 --> 00:01:00.330 align:middle line:84% under their colored headscarves, the skin 00:01:00.330 --> 00:01:06.750 align:middle line:84% around the husband's eyes flayed by guilt and promises. 00:01:06.750 --> 00:01:12.120 align:middle line:84% You, who risk no more than your own skins, I tell you, 00:01:12.120 --> 00:01:16.050 align:middle line:90% household gods are jealous gods. 00:01:16.050 --> 00:01:21.390 align:middle line:84% They will cover your window sills with the dust of sunsets. 00:01:21.390 --> 00:01:26.750 align:middle line:84% They will poison your secret wells with longing. 00:01:26.750 --> 00:01:29.000 align:middle line:90%