WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:00.630 align:middle line:90% 00:00:00.630 --> 00:00:03.780 align:middle line:84% Let me read an older poem because many people seem 00:00:03.780 --> 00:00:07.305 align:middle line:84% to like it, it's called The Drunken Man. 00:00:07.305 --> 00:00:09.900 align:middle line:90% 00:00:09.900 --> 00:00:12.750 align:middle line:84% And it's a experience that we all have. 00:00:12.750 --> 00:00:14.460 align:middle line:84% Your friend is drunk and you're not. 00:00:14.460 --> 00:00:17.550 align:middle line:84% And there's no way to deal with him. 00:00:17.550 --> 00:00:20.280 align:middle line:90% Everything you say is wrong. 00:00:20.280 --> 00:00:21.240 align:middle line:90% He misinterprets. 00:00:21.240 --> 00:00:22.560 align:middle line:90% He wants to start a fight. 00:00:22.560 --> 00:00:25.350 align:middle line:90% It's everything is always wrong. 00:00:25.350 --> 00:00:27.240 align:middle line:84% This is not about anybody in particular, 00:00:27.240 --> 00:00:30.690 align:middle line:84% but just about all my-- although, it 00:00:30.690 --> 00:00:31.800 align:middle line:90% sticks with one person. 00:00:31.800 --> 00:00:34.230 align:middle line:84% It really is about every experience 00:00:34.230 --> 00:00:36.870 align:middle line:84% when you have a drunken friend and you're not. 00:00:36.870 --> 00:00:39.180 align:middle line:90% The drunken man. 00:00:39.180 --> 00:00:42.000 align:middle line:84% There's nothing you can say to a man who drinks. 00:00:42.000 --> 00:00:45.090 align:middle line:84% He rises in the gray mist of morning and lights 00:00:45.090 --> 00:00:49.230 align:middle line:84% his cigarette knowing that soon he'll be elsewhere. 00:00:49.230 --> 00:00:52.440 align:middle line:84% Out in the world, the old men sweep their shops, 00:00:52.440 --> 00:00:54.780 align:middle line:90% and one barber nods. 00:00:54.780 --> 00:00:57.420 align:middle line:84% The full breasted woman airing her pillows. 00:00:57.420 --> 00:01:01.110 align:middle line:84% She smiles and squints and seeing it as only him, 00:01:01.110 --> 00:01:03.120 align:middle line:90% she closes the window. 00:01:03.120 --> 00:01:04.840 align:middle line:90% But it doesn't matter. 00:01:04.840 --> 00:01:07.650 align:middle line:84% There's no way of hurting a man who drinks. 00:01:07.650 --> 00:01:09.870 align:middle line:90% His wife floats in his pockets. 00:01:09.870 --> 00:01:12.210 align:middle line:90% His father twists open the cap. 00:01:12.210 --> 00:01:16.480 align:middle line:84% His mother whispers drink, drink. 00:01:16.480 --> 00:01:19.200 align:middle line:90% He moves on down the street. 00:01:19.200 --> 00:01:22.200 align:middle line:84% There are times when I feel obligated to speak, 00:01:22.200 --> 00:01:24.390 align:middle line:90% I take my hands from my pockets. 00:01:24.390 --> 00:01:27.030 align:middle line:90% I slide my glass away from him. 00:01:27.030 --> 00:01:28.950 align:middle line:90% In earnest, I'll say something. 00:01:28.950 --> 00:01:31.920 align:middle line:90% Anything, the weather, my son. 00:01:31.920 --> 00:01:34.590 align:middle line:84% And he'll argue at me from someplace I can't 00:01:34.590 --> 00:01:37.650 align:middle line:90% know because I'm not a drunk. 00:01:37.650 --> 00:01:41.790 align:middle line:84% Perhaps, when I stagger home, my wife screams to shut up. 00:01:41.790 --> 00:01:44.070 align:middle line:90% Come to bed like a man. 00:01:44.070 --> 00:01:47.670 align:middle line:84% My flat, my face reddened my shoes drop. 00:01:47.670 --> 00:01:50.610 align:middle line:90% I burrow into her flesh. 00:01:50.610 --> 00:01:52.590 align:middle line:90% But a drunk is like a cloud. 00:01:52.590 --> 00:01:55.770 align:middle line:84% It's like a ship that sinks, but never drowns 00:01:55.770 --> 00:01:58.160 align:middle line:90% is like a feather bed. 00:01:58.160 --> 00:02:00.060 align:middle line:90% Already it is noon. 00:02:00.060 --> 00:02:02.970 align:middle line:84% His mother and his father are half gone. 00:02:02.970 --> 00:02:05.410 align:middle line:90% He's weightless now. 00:02:05.410 --> 00:02:08.009 align:middle line:84% Don't waste pity on a drunken man. 00:02:08.009 --> 00:02:11.670 align:middle line:84% At night in the bar, I am his weakness, his hope, 00:02:11.670 --> 00:02:13.470 align:middle line:90% and his family. 00:02:13.470 --> 00:02:16.800 align:middle line:84% If I argue back, if I arm wrestle him, 00:02:16.800 --> 00:02:19.890 align:middle line:84% if the bartender is embarrassed by my antics, 00:02:19.890 --> 00:02:25.500 align:middle line:84% it's time to go home, go home, go home to my noisy wife. 00:02:25.500 --> 00:02:26.000 align:middle line:90%