WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.590 align:middle line:90% 00:00:02.590 --> 00:00:08.100 align:middle line:84% The next poem I have to tell you from topographical information 00:00:08.100 --> 00:00:10.650 align:middle line:90% about Buffalo. 00:00:10.650 --> 00:00:13.560 align:middle line:84% Its at the Western edge, for those who don't know, 00:00:13.560 --> 00:00:19.020 align:middle line:84% of New York State, on Lake Erie at the mouth of the Niagara 00:00:19.020 --> 00:00:24.120 align:middle line:84% River, which is just a channel that carries the water of Lake 00:00:24.120 --> 00:00:27.000 align:middle line:90% Erie into Lake Ontario. 00:00:27.000 --> 00:00:37.730 align:middle line:84% And across the river from Buffalo is Fort Erie in Canada. 00:00:37.730 --> 00:00:42.810 align:middle line:84% This is a kind of advice poem on how to do a poem, in this case, 00:00:42.810 --> 00:00:48.690 align:middle line:84% how to resist time by trying to focus all one's 00:00:48.690 --> 00:00:49.860 align:middle line:90% energies on the moment. 00:00:49.860 --> 00:00:56.130 align:middle line:90% 00:00:56.130 --> 00:00:59.010 align:middle line:84% It's called "Sarit Narai", and that, you'll see, 00:00:59.010 --> 00:01:00.390 align:middle line:90% is a name of someone. 00:01:00.390 --> 00:01:05.780 align:middle line:90% 00:01:05.780 --> 00:01:08.600 align:middle line:84% "Now that the light holds on after supper, 00:01:08.600 --> 00:01:11.780 align:middle line:84% why not walk west to the end of Ferry Street 00:01:11.780 --> 00:01:15.380 align:middle line:84% and linger where the ferries used to dock before the bridge 00:01:15.380 --> 00:01:17.810 align:middle line:90% spanned the Niagara? 00:01:17.810 --> 00:01:21.800 align:middle line:84% Why not enlarge the thin verge of the moment with the Sunday 00:01:21.800 --> 00:01:26.330 align:middle line:84% crowd on deck 50 years ago, riding to Fort Erie 00:01:26.330 --> 00:01:29.600 align:middle line:90% and back just for the fun of it. 00:01:29.600 --> 00:01:32.840 align:middle line:84% The wind from the lake ruffles their hair, 00:01:32.840 --> 00:01:36.380 align:middle line:84% as the low sun glances along the water, 00:01:36.380 --> 00:01:40.190 align:middle line:84% just as they left their rooms to join the flow so you 00:01:40.190 --> 00:01:44.030 align:middle line:84% can go back to them for a moment and lead them forward 00:01:44.030 --> 00:01:47.330 align:middle line:84% into the present, where the gulls are gliding, 00:01:47.330 --> 00:01:51.980 align:middle line:84% swinging beneath the bridge in figures that blur as you watch, 00:01:51.980 --> 00:01:53.960 align:middle line:90% and disappear. 00:01:53.960 --> 00:01:55.940 align:middle line:84% And why not call up the boys you used 00:01:55.940 --> 00:01:59.900 align:middle line:84% to see here playing on the boulders in the bridge's shadow 00:01:59.900 --> 00:02:03.770 align:middle line:84% before the fence was put up to stop them. 00:02:03.770 --> 00:02:08.419 align:middle line:84% If one of them lost his footing, his chances were slim, 00:02:08.419 --> 00:02:12.920 align:middle line:84% the push in the channel too hard and heavy, the water of Erie 00:02:12.920 --> 00:02:15.080 align:middle line:84% beginning its headlong, brainless 00:02:15.080 --> 00:02:20.810 align:middle line:84% rush to join the Ontario, as if an extra minute mattered. 00:02:20.810 --> 00:02:23.450 align:middle line:84% Remember the evening you found a crowd here, 00:02:23.450 --> 00:02:26.750 align:middle line:84% waiting beside an ambulance with its motor running 00:02:26.750 --> 00:02:31.940 align:middle line:84% and a squad car, where a woman sat in back, head in her hands, 00:02:31.940 --> 00:02:33.410 align:middle line:90% dark-haired? 00:02:33.410 --> 00:02:36.740 align:middle line:84% Next morning, leafing through the local news, 00:02:36.740 --> 00:02:39.980 align:middle line:84% you found the story, Woman from Thailand, 00:02:39.980 --> 00:02:46.580 align:middle line:84% three years in the States, loses her son, 11, to the Niagara. 00:02:46.580 --> 00:02:50.390 align:middle line:84% Let yourself go if you want to enlarge the moment 00:02:50.390 --> 00:02:52.790 align:middle line:84% and imagine what might have happened 00:02:52.790 --> 00:02:56.030 align:middle line:84% if the boy, Sarit Narai, had been 00:02:56.030 --> 00:02:58.940 align:middle line:90% fished from the river in time. 00:02:58.940 --> 00:03:02.090 align:middle line:84% Try to think of him as your son's best friend in Niagara 00:03:02.090 --> 00:03:06.530 align:middle line:84% school, where friends were scarce, quieting a wildness 00:03:06.530 --> 00:03:09.920 align:middle line:84% you could never manage, the mild manners of Asia 00:03:09.920 --> 00:03:13.520 align:middle line:90% persuasive by mere example. 00:03:13.520 --> 00:03:16.460 align:middle line:84% And what if your daughter admires him even more 00:03:16.460 --> 00:03:20.390 align:middle line:84% and comes to choose him for her life's companion, not 00:03:20.390 --> 00:03:23.720 align:middle line:84% the drab complainer she ended up with? 00:03:23.720 --> 00:03:28.490 align:middle line:84% The word turned left that day on the forking path. 00:03:28.490 --> 00:03:31.760 align:middle line:84% But the path on the right still runs beside it, 00:03:31.760 --> 00:03:33.305 align:middle line:90% though never touching. 00:03:33.305 --> 00:03:38.630 align:middle line:84% A bountiful Buddha smile as he explains to your granddaughters 00:03:38.630 --> 00:03:44.210 align:middle line:84% and grandsons how to climb the eightfold path to freedom. 00:03:44.210 --> 00:03:48.530 align:middle line:84% As gulls like these swoop over the gray stones 00:03:48.530 --> 00:03:53.450 align:middle line:84% and the ferries steam back and forth if you let them. 00:03:53.450 --> 00:03:57.830 align:middle line:84% Freely the crowd on deck empties its mind of thought 00:03:57.830 --> 00:04:02.220 align:middle line:84% and welcomes sensation, the sun and wind. 00:04:02.220 --> 00:04:06.890 align:middle line:84% And then the riders waken to see the skyline of home, beckoning 00:04:06.890 --> 00:04:09.710 align:middle line:84% from a distance as if it missed them. 00:04:09.710 --> 00:04:12.710 align:middle line:84% So they're ready to take up their lives again. 00:04:12.710 --> 00:04:16.490 align:middle line:84% As a ship pulls in, where now, a line of cars 00:04:16.490 --> 00:04:19.730 align:middle line:84% waits in the twilight to pay the bridge toll, 00:04:19.730 --> 00:04:23.600 align:middle line:84% not 30 yards from the spot where the ambulance waited 00:04:23.600 --> 00:04:27.680 align:middle line:84% and the woman cried in the back seat of the car. 00:04:27.680 --> 00:04:32.270 align:middle line:84% After an hour, the crowd moved off, dissolving to families, 00:04:32.270 --> 00:04:37.040 align:middle line:84% to couples musing on twilight pastimes. 00:04:37.040 --> 00:04:39.470 align:middle line:84% For a moment, though, each may have 00:04:39.470 --> 00:04:44.840 align:middle line:84% hesitated to change the subject and appear small-souled. 00:04:44.840 --> 00:04:49.100 align:middle line:84% The midst of sorrow already thinning and fading, 00:04:49.100 --> 00:04:54.770 align:middle line:84% that would have remained if they lived in Eden, the one kingdom, 00:04:54.770 --> 00:04:58.940 align:middle line:84% where the sorrows of others feel like our own. 00:04:58.940 --> 00:05:02.030 align:middle line:84% When Buddha neared Nirvana, one story 00:05:02.030 --> 00:05:05.900 align:middle line:84% goes, he looked back on us as we drowned 00:05:05.900 --> 00:05:10.520 align:middle line:84% in the sea of endless craving, and was filled with pity, 00:05:10.520 --> 00:05:15.500 align:middle line:84% and chose to postpone his bliss till all were saved. 00:05:15.500 --> 00:05:17.510 align:middle line:84% But how can a climb from the world 00:05:17.510 --> 00:05:20.780 align:middle line:84% be managed here when the crowd on the ferry 00:05:20.780 --> 00:05:26.270 align:middle line:84% wants the sunset to linger, and the mother would sell her soul 00:05:26.270 --> 00:05:29.360 align:middle line:84% to get her son back, and the boy still 00:05:29.360 --> 00:05:34.520 align:middle line:84% struggles to grab the slippery rock and pull himself up. 00:05:34.520 --> 00:05:39.350 align:middle line:84% His friends all helping, so he can grow old among them, 00:05:39.350 --> 00:05:44.210 align:middle line:84% an old man looking back on his deeds of kindness. 00:05:44.210 --> 00:05:47.750 align:middle line:84% Now, the few who met him and the many 00:05:47.750 --> 00:05:52.520 align:middle line:84% who never did, but might have, feel the phantom gap 00:05:52.520 --> 00:05:56.960 align:middle line:84% he would have filled, but are ignorant of its cause 00:05:56.960 --> 00:06:00.620 align:middle line:84% and blame their wives, their husbands, their children, 00:06:00.620 --> 00:06:03.690 align:middle line:84% their towns and jobs, and hunt around 00:06:03.690 --> 00:06:07.890 align:middle line:84% for new gospels, new philosophies. 00:06:07.890 --> 00:06:12.540 align:middle line:84% If you see them this evening pacing along the bank, where 00:06:12.540 --> 00:06:17.610 align:middle line:84% once the ferries docked and the Sunday riders lost themselves 00:06:17.610 --> 00:06:23.220 align:middle line:84% awhile in the sway and shimmer, pity their restlessness. 00:06:23.220 --> 00:06:26.550 align:middle line:84% There must be a way to step forward and name 00:06:26.550 --> 00:06:31.920 align:middle line:84% the one they miss, Sarit Narai, in a tone so resonant, 00:06:31.920 --> 00:06:36.920 align:middle line:84% it holds them a moment, beyond loss and longing." 00:06:36.920 --> 00:06:41.000 align:middle line:90%