WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.885 align:middle line:90% And the last poem. 00:00:03.885 --> 00:00:08.900 align:middle line:90% 00:00:08.900 --> 00:00:10.540 align:middle line:84% It's called "the God who loves you". 00:00:10.540 --> 00:00:16.192 align:middle line:90% 00:00:16.192 --> 00:00:18.440 align:middle line:84% "It must be troubling for the God who 00:00:18.440 --> 00:00:23.090 align:middle line:84% loves you to ponder how much happier you'd be today 00:00:23.090 --> 00:00:27.020 align:middle line:84% had you been able to glimpse your many futures. 00:00:27.020 --> 00:00:29.270 align:middle line:84% It must be painful for Him to watch you 00:00:29.270 --> 00:00:32.750 align:middle line:84% on Friday evenings driving home from the office 00:00:32.750 --> 00:00:36.020 align:middle line:84% content with your week, three fine houses 00:00:36.020 --> 00:00:38.960 align:middle line:84% sold to deserving families, knowing 00:00:38.960 --> 00:00:41.420 align:middle line:84% as He does exactly what would have 00:00:41.420 --> 00:00:45.710 align:middle line:84% happened if you'd gone to your second choice for college. 00:00:45.710 --> 00:00:47.480 align:middle line:84% Knowing the roommate you'd have been 00:00:47.480 --> 00:00:51.710 align:middle line:84% allotted whose ardent opinions on painting and music 00:00:51.710 --> 00:00:56.060 align:middle line:84% would have kindled in you a lifelong passion, 00:00:56.060 --> 00:00:58.610 align:middle line:84% a life 30 points above the life you're 00:00:58.610 --> 00:01:02.660 align:middle line:84% living on any scale of satisfaction 00:01:02.660 --> 00:01:07.970 align:middle line:84% and every point a thorn in the side of the God who loves you. 00:01:07.970 --> 00:01:09.650 align:middle line:90% You don't want that. 00:01:09.650 --> 00:01:12.770 align:middle line:84% A large souled man like you who tries 00:01:12.770 --> 00:01:15.980 align:middle line:84% to withhold from your wife the day's disappointments 00:01:15.980 --> 00:01:20.540 align:middle line:84% so she can save her empathy for the children, 00:01:20.540 --> 00:01:23.180 align:middle line:84% and would you want this God to compare your wife 00:01:23.180 --> 00:01:27.290 align:middle line:84% with the woman you were destined to meet on the other campus? 00:01:27.290 --> 00:01:31.460 align:middle line:84% It hurts you to think of him ranking the conversation you'd 00:01:31.460 --> 00:01:35.180 align:middle line:84% have enjoyed over there higher in insight 00:01:35.180 --> 00:01:38.150 align:middle line:84% than the conversation you're used to. 00:01:38.150 --> 00:01:40.130 align:middle line:84% And think how this loving God would 00:01:40.130 --> 00:01:44.450 align:middle line:84% feel knowing that the man next in line to your wife 00:01:44.450 --> 00:01:47.420 align:middle line:84% would have pleased her more than you ever will, 00:01:47.420 --> 00:01:51.830 align:middle line:84% even on your best days when you really try. 00:01:51.830 --> 00:01:55.730 align:middle line:84% Can you sleep at night, believing a God like that 00:01:55.730 --> 00:01:58.460 align:middle line:90% is pacing his cloudy bedroom? 00:01:58.460 --> 00:02:03.230 align:middle line:84% Harrassed by alternatives, you're spared by ignorance. 00:02:03.230 --> 00:02:07.400 align:middle line:84% The difference between what is and what could have been 00:02:07.400 --> 00:02:13.130 align:middle line:84% will remain alive for Him even after you cease existing, 00:02:13.130 --> 00:02:16.850 align:middle line:84% after you catch a chill running out in the snow for the morning 00:02:16.850 --> 00:02:17.870 align:middle line:90% paper. 00:02:17.870 --> 00:02:21.620 align:middle line:84% Losing 11 years that the God who loves you will feel 00:02:21.620 --> 00:02:25.910 align:middle line:84% compelled to imagine scene by scene, 00:02:25.910 --> 00:02:31.400 align:middle line:84% unless you come to the rescue by imagining Him no wise 00:02:31.400 --> 00:02:32.600 align:middle line:90% than you are. 00:02:32.600 --> 00:02:38.240 align:middle line:84% No God at all, only a friend, no closer than the actual friend 00:02:38.240 --> 00:02:43.280 align:middle line:84% you made at college who you haven't written in months. 00:02:43.280 --> 00:02:46.610 align:middle line:84% Sit down tonight and write him about the life 00:02:46.610 --> 00:02:50.590 align:middle line:84% you can talk about with a claim to authority. 00:02:50.590 --> 00:02:54.650 align:middle line:84% The life you witness, which for all you know 00:02:54.650 --> 00:02:57.620 align:middle line:90% is a life you've chosen." 00:02:57.620 --> 00:02:58.190 align:middle line:90% Thank you. 00:02:58.190 --> 00:03:07.530 align:middle line:90% 00:03:07.530 --> 00:03:10.500 align:middle line:84% Will you please join us in the lobby for carrot cake? 00:03:10.500 --> 00:03:11.000 align:middle line:90%