WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 align:middle line:90% 00:00:03.000 --> 00:00:07.265 align:middle line:84% I know the title of this poem is also a song. 00:00:07.265 --> 00:00:08.640 align:middle line:84% I said in the class today, that's 00:00:08.640 --> 00:00:11.590 align:middle line:90% where I get a lot of my titles. 00:00:11.590 --> 00:00:13.770 align:middle line:90% "Anyone Who Had a Heart." 00:00:13.770 --> 00:00:15.990 align:middle line:84% OK I know that's a song sung by Dionne 00:00:15.990 --> 00:00:19.670 align:middle line:90% Warwick among other people. 00:00:19.670 --> 00:00:20.670 align:middle line:90% But don't think of that. 00:00:20.670 --> 00:00:23.470 align:middle line:90% [LAUGHTER] 00:00:23.470 --> 00:00:28.500 align:middle line:90% Well, "Anyone Who Had a Heart." 00:00:28.500 --> 00:00:33.210 align:middle line:84% "I know a man who routinely asks that I humiliate him. 00:00:33.210 --> 00:00:37.530 align:middle line:84% It's sex, and it isn't, whatever. 00:00:37.530 --> 00:00:41.400 align:middle line:84% For him, it's a need, the way brutality 00:00:41.400 --> 00:00:46.320 align:middle line:84% can seem for so long a likely answer, that it becomes 00:00:46.320 --> 00:00:49.740 align:middle line:90% the answer, a kindness, even. 00:00:49.740 --> 00:00:53.430 align:middle line:84% And I have always been kind, for which reason 00:00:53.430 --> 00:00:56.550 align:middle line:84% it goes against my nature to do what he says, 00:00:56.550 --> 00:00:59.370 align:middle line:84% but there's little in nature that won't, 00:00:59.370 --> 00:01:01.005 align:middle line:90% with enough training, change. 00:01:01.005 --> 00:01:03.540 align:middle line:90% 00:01:03.540 --> 00:01:07.170 align:middle line:84% After it's done, if the weather's good, 00:01:07.170 --> 00:01:09.480 align:middle line:90% we tour his garden. 00:01:09.480 --> 00:01:14.070 align:middle line:90% Heliotrope, evening primrose. 00:01:14.070 --> 00:01:20.250 align:middle line:84% Proximity is one thing, he likes to say, penetration another, 00:01:20.250 --> 00:01:23.100 align:middle line:90% and I have learned that's true. 00:01:23.100 --> 00:01:25.890 align:middle line:90% Though which is better depends. 00:01:25.890 --> 00:01:27.690 align:middle line:90% Whose life? 00:01:27.690 --> 00:01:29.490 align:middle line:90% What story? 00:01:29.490 --> 00:01:34.980 align:middle line:84% The relief of snowmelt, or the flooded fields again? 00:01:34.980 --> 00:01:37.740 align:middle line:84% We go down to the stables to visit the horses 00:01:37.740 --> 00:01:42.390 align:middle line:84% that, when they were nothing, just shivering foals still, 00:01:42.390 --> 00:01:46.170 align:middle line:84% he once asked me to give names to. 00:01:46.170 --> 00:01:50.970 align:middle line:84% How long we've traveled, he and I, more like drifted, really, 00:01:50.970 --> 00:01:53.970 align:middle line:90% and how far. 00:01:53.970 --> 00:01:58.620 align:middle line:84% More black than all the sorrows and joys put together that I 00:01:58.620 --> 00:02:01.680 align:middle line:84% can remember, when I try remembering, 00:02:01.680 --> 00:02:03.660 align:middle line:90% which I mostly don't. 00:02:03.660 --> 00:02:07.050 align:middle line:84% Now the foals, they're stallions. 00:02:07.050 --> 00:02:10.949 align:middle line:90% Call out Fanfare, Adoration. 00:02:10.949 --> 00:02:16.340 align:middle line:84% Like broken kings, they lower their heads, then raise them." 00:02:16.340 --> 00:02:19.000 align:middle line:90%