WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.340 align:middle line:90% 00:00:02.340 --> 00:00:04.920 align:middle line:90% This is called "Family Romance." 00:00:04.920 --> 00:00:07.230 align:middle line:84% And as many of you probably know, 00:00:07.230 --> 00:00:09.540 align:middle line:84% that's a term used in psychoanalysis 00:00:09.540 --> 00:00:12.690 align:middle line:84% for the kind of fantasy that children 00:00:12.690 --> 00:00:16.379 align:middle line:84% have about their real parents who 00:00:16.379 --> 00:00:19.650 align:middle line:84% may have been Kings and Queens or whatever, 00:00:19.650 --> 00:00:22.020 align:middle line:84% but who are not these two people whom 00:00:22.020 --> 00:00:23.565 align:middle line:90% they're stuck with in reality. 00:00:23.565 --> 00:00:29.220 align:middle line:90% 00:00:29.220 --> 00:00:33.630 align:middle line:84% "We lost our mother, and our father was the King, always 00:00:33.630 --> 00:00:36.510 align:middle line:90% absent at the wars. 00:00:36.510 --> 00:00:39.480 align:middle line:84% We had to make it together or not at all. 00:00:39.480 --> 00:00:41.310 align:middle line:90% In the Black Forest-- 00:00:41.310 --> 00:00:46.140 align:middle line:84% cutting paths, stumbling on the witch's house, long empty. 00:00:46.140 --> 00:00:49.560 align:middle line:84% Gathering wood and mushrooms, gathering everything 00:00:49.560 --> 00:00:53.490 align:middle line:84% we needed in a wordless collusion. 00:00:53.490 --> 00:00:56.400 align:middle line:84% Sometimes we pretended the witch had been our mother 00:00:56.400 --> 00:00:58.960 align:middle line:90% and would come back. 00:00:58.960 --> 00:01:01.140 align:middle line:84% We loved each other with a passion 00:01:01.140 --> 00:01:06.450 align:middle line:84% understood like the great roots of the wood. 00:01:06.450 --> 00:01:08.910 align:middle line:84% In another country we might have fought each other 00:01:08.910 --> 00:01:12.930 align:middle line:84% and died of fraternal wounds, conspiring, 00:01:12.930 --> 00:01:16.980 align:middle line:84% each alone, for the father's blessing, the birthright, 00:01:16.980 --> 00:01:19.020 align:middle line:90% the mother. 00:01:19.020 --> 00:01:22.800 align:middle line:84% Since we had no father to bless us, we were free, 00:01:22.800 --> 00:01:25.950 align:middle line:84% and our birthright was each other. 00:01:25.950 --> 00:01:28.950 align:middle line:90% Our life was harsh and simple. 00:01:28.950 --> 00:01:31.260 align:middle line:90% We slept deeply. 00:01:31.260 --> 00:01:35.500 align:middle line:84% And we thought our mother came and watched us sleeping." 00:01:35.500 --> 00:01:36.000 align:middle line:90%