WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.880 align:middle line:90% 00:00:02.880 --> 00:00:07.160 align:middle line:84% "She Makes a List for the Night's Replay" 00:00:07.160 --> 00:00:12.050 align:middle line:84% That time he buried her legs in the sand in South Carolina 00:00:12.050 --> 00:00:15.470 align:middle line:90% and said, "Now I've got you." 00:00:15.470 --> 00:00:17.900 align:middle line:84% That time he flirted with another woman 00:00:17.900 --> 00:00:21.140 align:middle line:84% at the restaurant, and she cried but hadn't wanted to. 00:00:21.140 --> 00:00:25.070 align:middle line:84% How he got on his knees and dramatically begged until she 00:00:25.070 --> 00:00:26.570 align:middle line:90% laughed. 00:00:26.570 --> 00:00:30.800 align:middle line:84% The way he picked bits of fuzz off her sweater and coats, 00:00:30.800 --> 00:00:33.140 align:middle line:90% meticulous love. 00:00:33.140 --> 00:00:38.930 align:middle line:84% His annoying obsession with canned soups and Manwich, 00:00:38.930 --> 00:00:44.540 align:middle line:84% maroon and red cans stacked in the garage, "just in case." 00:00:44.540 --> 00:00:50.060 align:middle line:84% The same five flannels followed by the same five flannels. 00:00:50.060 --> 00:00:54.230 align:middle line:84% That time they ordered oysters in Orange Beach, Alabama, 00:00:54.230 --> 00:00:56.180 align:middle line:90% and they were so-- 00:00:56.180 --> 00:00:58.550 align:middle line:90% there was no other word for it-- 00:00:58.550 --> 00:01:00.500 align:middle line:90% gargantuan. 00:01:00.500 --> 00:01:03.980 align:middle line:84% They both said the word, gargantuan. 00:01:03.980 --> 00:01:06.170 align:middle line:90% They couldn't eat the oysters. 00:01:06.170 --> 00:01:10.370 align:middle line:84% They put hot sauce on Saltines and drank clearish beer 00:01:10.370 --> 00:01:12.140 align:middle line:90% instead. 00:01:12.140 --> 00:01:15.440 align:middle line:84% That time the car broke down in the parking lot 00:01:15.440 --> 00:01:19.340 align:middle line:84% of the Bob Evans, the smoke coming out of the hood. 00:01:19.340 --> 00:01:21.380 align:middle line:90% How broke they were. 00:01:21.380 --> 00:01:24.650 align:middle line:84% How somehow she had made him laugh while they waited 00:01:24.650 --> 00:01:28.100 align:middle line:84% for the tow truck they'd put on the already bloated credit 00:01:28.100 --> 00:01:29.600 align:middle line:90% card. 00:01:29.600 --> 00:01:33.440 align:middle line:84% The way her mother once asked, if he was romantic. 00:01:33.440 --> 00:01:36.740 align:middle line:90% "No," she said proudly. 00:01:36.740 --> 00:01:40.480 align:middle line:84% How at night in their cool bedroom with the overhead fan 00:01:40.480 --> 00:01:45.960 align:middle line:84% on, even in winter, they held hands as they went to sleep. 00:01:45.960 --> 00:01:50.960 align:middle line:84% How she told him once, "I like that we hold hands at night." 00:01:50.960 --> 00:01:55.700 align:middle line:84% How he had smiled sleepily and said, "Yes, like the Titanic." 00:01:55.700 --> 00:01:58.400 align:middle line:90% 00:01:58.400 --> 00:02:02.330 align:middle line:84% How now when she sleeps, there is always the image 00:02:02.330 --> 00:02:05.510 align:middle line:90% of a ship sinking beneath them. 00:02:05.510 --> 00:02:10.240 align:middle line:84% She shouldn't find it comforting, but she does. 00:02:10.240 --> 00:02:11.000 align:middle line:90%